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i had sex with my boyfriend whom i expected will marry me ,but unfortunately he left me due to his own personal reasons,but never i got pregnant because we took preventive measures like condoms etc,we never had oral sex also,but we deep kissed a lot many times.after months one of my colegue used to harass me sexually from office,tryingto kiss me,but i always moved away from him.because of him i quit my job too.now its 1year after,i m satisfied with my job and life when my family found a life partner,but i am afraid since i had sex before ,would i be infected with hiv,after all he is not infected also,please help me

Yes you should get a blood test before having any sexual relations with anyone so you can be sure you and your future mate will be safe. good luck.

best option would be to have a blood test. what makes you think you are?

If your partner wasnt infected, you shouldnt be infected. Have an hiv test done, they can take a saliva swab from your mouth to find out, you dont have to have a blood test.

okay if i were you and was unsure about that guy..i would get checkd just incase...it doesnt hurt to get checkd..matterfact in some places they pay u like 30 bux..anyway get checkd but dont worry about it too much..i done had unprotected sex toooooo much..hell once even with 2 sisters..and i get checkd too by choice stay alive ..stay healthy

It isn't really that big of a deal to get a blood test is it? You are probably fine, but why worry? Get the test and move on with your life.

I'm going to try to make sense of what you're trying to say, and answer it the best way I can. The way it sounds, unless there was a demonic entity with magic powers that hands out HIV randomly, I don't see how YOU would get it if neither of you have it, so stop worrying. If I answered the question incorrectly from the wrong angle, it's because to QUESTION barely makes sense.Good Luck...